If you need more relationship help and advice

Sometimes problems in a relationship may seem too complex or overwhelming for a couple to handle on their own. In that case, it’s important to reach out together for help. There are a number of options available, including:

    Couples counseling.
It’s a big investment, and time, energy, focus and commitment are needed from both people to make a difference, but you might consider couples or marriage counseling to resolve your differences. Both parties need to be willing and able to honestly communicate what they need, face the issues that arise in counseling, and then make the necessary changes. It’s important also that both people feel comfortable with the counselor.

    Spiritual advice.
Some couples benefit from spiritual advice from a religious figure such as a pastor or rabbi. This tends to work best if both have similar convictions of faith and a good relationship with the spiritual advisor.

    Emotional Intelligence building.
Try using Helpguide's Emotional Intelligence Toolkit, a free utility for building emotional health and emotional intelligence. This in-depth course provides articles, videos, and audio meditations designed to help you put the skills of emotional intelligence and communication into practice.

    Individual therapy.
Sometimes one person may need specialized help. For example, someone who is grieving the loss of a loved one may need counseling to help process the grief. If your loved one needs help, don’t feel like you are a failure for not providing everything he or she needs. No one can fulfill everyone’s needs, and getting the right help can make a tremendous difference in your relationship.