DIFFERENT BETWEEN LOVE AND LUST
Right from the beginning, love carry the face of lust,if love is not well manage or one of the partner tense to love more deeply than the other partner involve ,such case leads to lust with a face of love.
Luckily smart partner will easily change the lustful act to love with their wisdom and good altitudes knowingly or unknowingly.
Believe me,no need for you to run when an oposite sex is lusting after you,it can be your chance to have a real and genuine partner.
From my own experience (love Dr dammy) have never love any woman from day one, after lusting after her ,I find my self loving her deeply,Not all though but those once who were able to redirect my path with there good altitudes.
Definition
Love
An intense feeling of deep affection.
Lust
Any intense desire or craving for gratification; when contrasted with love, lust usually means sexual desire.
Symptoms
Love
Faithfulness, loyalty, confidence. Willingness to make sacrifices for another. Working at settling differences. Able to compromise so that either both win or at least give the other person's opinion a chance.
Lust
Desire, passion, acquisitiveness, intense emotions.
Person to Person
Love
Commitment to another. Genuine intentions. Think about other person's feelings before acting.
Lust
Enjoyment of a short-term, mutually pleasurable relationship.
Feels like
Love
A deep affection, contentment, confidence. Partners communicate and negotiate appropriate expectations. Requires a lot of selflessness and polite assertiveness. You are loving your best friend.
Lust
Passion, joyousness, strong desire, intense and sometimes difficult feelings of need.
Result
Love
Security, peace, a solid partnership which can provide the ideal atmosphere to raise confident, secure children.
Lust
Unsatisfied lust results in sexual frustration, increased religiosity and superstition, emotional rigidity. Lust satisfied in a mutually beneficial way results in pleasure, creativity, passion, zest for life.
Effect
Love
Contentment, stability.
Lust
fire, drive, activeness.
Interdependency
Love
Partnership. Can lead to codependency if not tempered with self-awareness and self-guidedness.
Lust
Often the first stage of love, and can lead to lasting friendships, romantic or otherwise. When not tempered with compassion and empathy, however, it can lead to emotionally damaging behavior.
Time Period
Love
It will deepen with the passage of time.
Lust
Highly variable -- it may deepen or dissipate with the passage of time.
Commitment
Love
This feeling may continue throughout one's life.
Lust
Temporary commitment that lasts only long enough to fulfill desire.
Bottom Line
Love
Love is unconditional and the real deal.
Lust
Interested in only what can be done for self-pleasure; lust may develop into love, but it is lust until that time.
From the desk of love Dr dammy.
Thanks for reading and believing in this dream.

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