Like I always say... Communication is very important in every relationship. It is said that pillow talk makes romance better.

According to Wikipedia; Pillow talk
Pillow talk is the relaxed, intimate conversation that often occurs between two sexual partners after the act of coitus usually accompanied by cuddling, caresses, and other physical intimacy. It is associated with honesty, sexual afterglow, and bonding, and is distinguished from dirty talks which usually forms part of foreplay.

Pillow talking is the kind of conversation you have with your lover when you’re lying down in bed with each other. Contrary to popular belief, pillow talk is not necessarily associated with sex or with after play.

Have you ever lied down in each other’s arms and spoken about just about anything, be it your lives, problems or even your relationship? It feels good just listening to each other, doesn’t it?

Pillow talking connects lovers emotionally and physically, and brings two lovers closer especially if the conversation is right for the occasion.



One of the most important things pillow talking does is build the connection and love in a relationship. Just listening to your lover’s calm voice in bed can soothe you and help you get rid of all the pressures and defeats of a bad day.

It relaxes both of you and helps you open up to more intimate conversations without worry of arguments or anger. And when communication starts to get frank and open, the feeling of love will definitely grow with each passing night.

Pillow talking is one of those times in the day when both of you get to be with each other, with no distractions. You could spend a whole day with each other and still feel like two companions, but all you need is a few minutes of pillow talking late in the night to feel like true lovers all over again.

There are couples that pillow talk, and there are couples that don’t. But the couple that doesn’t indulge in a bit of sleepy, happy conversations will never be as emotionally connected to each other as the couple that pillow talks.

Women will often use pillow talk as an “exit interview” to see how much you like them, whether or not you still find her sexy and how confident you are feeling about yourself after your performance. A man’s confidence and ability to remain composed is extremely attractive to women. Likewise, a man’s insecurity and emotional weakness is sexually unattractive and may result in a woman completely losing interest in having sex with him.

Note - Don’t talk about the problems in your life *unless you have a probable solution for it*.


Credit - Alison Ricard


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